There are many thoughts that we would like to share with you. One is that:

Yes, we are aware that some of you like the imperfectness of the channel and the use of language oddities in communications, as that is your expectation. it is what you have been taught to expect. It is however not of interest to us to be in your vernacular 'garden variety', nor common. The information we chose to give you is information that is readily available to all and is meant to be used as a working tool, as most of you have already tried alternatives, already tired therapies, you have already tried other channels and you have learned how to re-work and yea, work this system of information gathering to your advantage. Thus, we say to you, short-cutting your own attempts at improved wellness.

Somewhere within we know you are receiving and 'getting it', to use your phrasing, but you are hold onto the information it becomes loss within your own comfort-zone of knowledge. After all, you do know best don't you? And you will do what are you are going to do, regardless of all and anything, aren't you? And more than likely you will, and growing subsequently tired of yourself and the ways you handle things which you keep returning to and repeating, somewhere with in you know you are out of alignment and hence you are working your search for improvement. It is the framework, the pattern of behavior that has kept you locked into place.

Yes, we have told that you are loved, and you are pure, and yes, others have told you this too. You have paid monies and sums, you have shopped channels, writers, therapists, advisors and others searching for 'what you wanted hear' and the means to be released from personal self-responsibility, let alone accountabilities. And verily we say, here you are still searching and still the hoping for a easy, painless, one-step manner of approach not regress that will bring you forward into an abundant life. What we are saying to you is that you hare already capable, yea we say unto you that you are very capable for that abundance you seek. It is an inherent quality within yourself. But it is NOT workable for you will not allow it to be. You must allow yourself to simply experience it without fear. We will NOT tell you that there is an implied relationship or pre-contract for yourself and others you interact with. We will not let you cheat on yourself in such a manner. There may be circumstances and learning experience, yes, that awful experience of loss, of interaction, you dread, that you have hung on to, dragging along with yourself. Ever so faithful in the negative experience you forget you are living in this moment not in the past one. These are experiences that you are to learn from, you are to move through and you are over come and you can NOT do this by rethinking, reliving, and reapplying them to this moment in time.

The lesson, if there is one to be had is that of: RELEASE. But, ah yes, what then will you or would you have to blame? What excuse will you have for the lack of life you have lost along the way and for the lack of the quality of a better life you could have experienced? This bring us back to our opening statement to you:

What we are saying is that the guilt you carry, yea and the regret you carry are not part of this moment in time and you are presently here, so the past has no bearing on this moment. None. Divorce, relationship issues, life and the turning points within it are often unexpected and put off until a better time when expected, but that does not change the occurrence of the event.

If you have lost a loved one you will draw upon the example we will bring forth to you. No matter how well you prepare yourself, when that moment arrives, there in nothing you can do. You stand before the universe and see and events unfold that is out of your control. And when a death occurs all you can do is walk-away, empty handed and empty-armed. For you come into this knowing world alone and so shall you leave it. All you have are your memories and your thoughts, or so you think. What you have in actuality is all the lines of your forefathers and all the lines of your families standing in that moment of 'instant spiritual awareness'.

That is why it is VITALLY important to RELEASE and live in the moment and love in the moment. Take the learning and do not become filled with ranker, hostility, suspension, and anger or hatred. Do not hold FALSE religious virtue, where some say and think they practice: hating the sin but not the sinner. spare us this falsehood. This is nothing more that an ire of superiority and smugness. For in that statement alone is found bias and judgment. Simply let go and live your best now,. For when it is all said and done, you can not go back, you can not recapture time and you can not find love when you do not freely give it.

We could and we say could speak to you about fractured minds, or minds that split off from their reality bases to substitute, and if you will, compartmentalized behaviors to cope with situations when there is too much information of an extreme or intense nature for that individual to process and remain functionally well adapted to societal expectations. Death is the true indicator of life, therefore we would say verily to you that, yea, it is how that you choose to live, that you will come to know the quality of your transition, for in that transition is the transgressions of your past and how YOU CHOSE to hang onto them. How one cares for the dying shows how they are capable of caring for the living and celebrating life. It speaks to the virtue of those who can look upon what very few can, and by doing so conquer it, as an angel does when it defends its realm. It is upon seeing the fragileness of life, that one can see the strength and beauty within its gentle nature. To give care to the dead, is to give care and honor to one's own spirit and the spirit of others.

For one not to give care and not to honor this process by removing themselves from it speaks to their own fears and weaknesses, for they show the directness to their own needs to self-sustain and the illusion that they are fragile and cannot deal with the process they themselves will pass through. And to those, in-same and in-kind, who stay away and sit aside, while others do their caring and involvement for them, as we have seen done, to those that are linked to them, during their processes of death and dying, which is still part of the life processes, for in the breathe they breath they remain linked to that moment in the present experience, that yea, we will say to you, that they will suffer fates equal to the experiences they turned from and they will come to know the reality of the responsibilities they have placed upon others. For when they knowingly place their responsibilities upon others, they turn from their accountability and allow the gently-strong to step into their place, where they should stand for them, they have turned from themselves in selfish and usury manner. And in so doing give to those who do their caring the dreams, thoughts and recalls of what they would not want to be haunted by. For in dreams and memories comes the ability to find peace and work through what otherwise would become torment. Is the process easy, NO. But the rewards are great, for by journeying inward you find the path to self-acceptance and peace. These journeys must be undertaken by those who naturally discovery them, not by falsifying the attempt to undertake such a process. But it awaits those who without thought give themselves to a greater kindness, to love and selflessness. And in turn to those these givers, they pass on to those who love them the legacy of pride, virtue and dignity. For rarely do these givers see themselves as such, but for those who love them and look upon them as they take on the weight of pain and loss, giving love and compassion, before thinking of themselves, they witness the gentle-strength that binds them to each other, not only in this life, but through-out all time.

The night-sweats, the reliving, the complex processes of loss, is the means to working through these processes and bringing them into gentle understanding. For those who have felt guilt about loss, for those who have lost loved-ones and dream of the situation recalling it and reliving, there will come a time when your own scent, the smell, that you inhaled is forgotten, and the dreams that woke you in sweats are worked through and replaced by the loving laughter of those special moments: by your loved one walking by your side, by your dog leaping upon your bed and you mind coming to rest in the knowing that what was blocking you from letting them in, in spirit, was you hanging onto that one moment of the past that visually impacted and emotionally hurt you. For only you can say when you have grieved long enough. Let us nudge you into a knowing, but for those that, passed the honor of partaking in the ritual of life, the life processes, or stood by watching without loving giving of themselves, without thought to themselves, there will be no peace, only fear and anticipation of what awaits them. And time will settle this account.

The joyous connection exists in the spirit of Divine Mind, not within the testimonies of Mortal Mind and corporeal senses. The illusions of 'what is', are as fragile as the joy of life. For within moment to moment you can refocus your intent, and reclaim your joy. Know that is life, THIS life is a ONE WAY PASS!. This is the only time you can truly be free to love and experience and it is in that natural sense of flightedness that you can achieve pure-release within the moment. This can not be found within a pill, nor within a diagnoses, or within a label, but only through releasing that which is drama, that which is contrary to your nature and being allowing, by embracing yourself to be true to yourself, and by doing so you can find the calm within.

Embrace your differences, for in this is creativity and strength. Embrace the love you share for in this is longevity. Do not be threatened by each other or others. Enjoy the moment in time in which you stand, for it is a unique time and it will only last for that moment. Take these moments of joy and string them together into a life-time of happiness.