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The universal connection and association existing between varying bodies of energy and frequency have a reciprocal involvement. In relationship paring these bodies are usually attracted to, or searching for, the energies that, when combined with their own, make them whole. We are asked about relationships often. This is our attempt to address the questions that have been asked of us.
1) Do we draw our experiences and partners to us, either consciously or subconsciously?
2) Will I find a mate?
3) I have grown apart from my mate, what do I do?
4) I do not know my partner, how can I make my relationship a success?
 First and foremost you have free will based in Divine Perfection in essence, deed, thought and action. How can anything based in Divine unconditional love, universal knowing and awareness, not manifest the perfection of its being? Simply put, one can not. You can create, manifest, and enjoy whatever reality you choose. This is the unique gift of the 'human aspect' as it applies to the application of free-will.
The Allowing of Relationships
Often times the human self reflects its biological history and learned traits. Through patterning and conditioning and being removed from one's own intuitive self you learn to accept and expect less from yourself, less than you are naturally capable of.
We often hear, "I am looking at the essence of who I am, however I am constantly being attacked by others who are looking at who they perceive me to be ."
We would respond that this is a responding to the other's control and evaluation of yourself. If you are of the universe - and you are, if you are of God - and you are, if you are of the knowing - and you are, then why would you give your power to others?
The answer is easy. It is because you have been conditionally shown and taught to deny your true self and to seek the validation of others. It is hard to realize that you have grown beyond those around you.
But does not a tree, which shares its root system and pulls nutrients from the soil share a trunk and a foundation? In any relationship there is usually the same foundation, the search for validation and similarity and strength. Then you grow as does the tree, branching out at various specific times in your lineal growth process in different  directions. Needing more light and more room for growth, you may pull away from the trunk and reside yourself as a Willow branch does when it gets too heavy and pulls away. Rerooting it self in the soil, you are no different. Growth is not shared., it is individualized. We grow together, and apart. Some may say, "Well I know of relationships that have been successful and happy for long periods of time." Well, yes you may. Their energy and fit, or basic needs might be different than yours.
What is right for another is not always what is right for ourselves. This is why it is important to recognize the validation you seek is always within. It always has been . You are of the knowing, created in it, and expressed through it.
What some seek is the balancing of self by looking outside of themselves to another...sometimes for socioeconomic reasons, sometime for behavioral ones. Take as an example the wife who marries young and does not challenge her learned perspective of what the expectations of her reality are. Her husband may be controlling, dominating, and yet loving in a conditional manner. She may be satisfied with this, as may he at this specific point in time, and at this specific point in their relationship. These all are events, just events that manifest through a combining of formats of free will of your own and others who come together, impacting each other. Then they part and move on.
You don't need to draw to you or learn a lesson on a conscious level or subconscious level if you are of God and believe you are Divine in your essence, which you are.
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RELATIONSHIPS 
